An honest little ebook about the mental load of being a woman in a world that always wants more.

Written in the chaos between being a woman, a mother, a partner, a person, and a pile of expectations — THE LOAD names the invisible stuff that weighs us down.

This isn’t advice. This is a survival file.

This is for you if:

• You’re feeling stretched, fried, or stuck in your head

• You want to slow down but also do everything

• You’re balancing caregiving and career, dreams and dishes, selfhood and survival

• You love good writing and need something true

THE LOAD is a digital collection of my own reflections, and a save space for you to write down your load. It’s for you if you have thought:

• Why do I feel so tired, even when I’m not doing anything "hard"?

• Why do I carry so much of the planning, the thinking, the care?

• Why does life feel like a tab I can’t close?

What you’ll find inside:

• Observations that make you feel seen, with no pressure to fix yourself

• No how-tos. No rules. Just reminders you're not alone

• A place to name it and off load